“EVERYTHING” Night ROUTINE
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These days, I’ve been watching YouTube videos about routines—morning showers, daily habits, cleaning routines, and weekend resets. I especially enjoy “reset day” content because it helps me stay organized and plan my days with more structure and motivation.
For me, becoming “that girl” is about more than aesthetics—it’s about feeling fresh, smelling good, staying clean, and keeping my space in order. It doesn’t just start or end with a night routine; it’s a lifestyle. It’s about maintaining a clean room, an organized backpack, and fresh, well-kept outfits that make daily life feel more intentional and put together.
This is a night routine, but if you wake up at 4 AM or 5 AM to do this before school or work, then you’re “that girl.” I admire the discipline and consistency it takes to build that kind of lifestyle.
If you’re feeling lost on what to do, how to start a routine, or what skincare to use at night, there are plenty of videos out there to guide you. However, this isn’t just another saturated routine you’ve seen on YouTube. This version is more condensed and thoughtfully structured, based on researched information to make it easier for you to follow and actually apply in your daily life. This routine is meant to be done once or twice a week, not every day.
Pre-wash hair routine
You don’t need to oil your roots—plain and simple. I’ve seen many videos recommending it as “life-changing,” but it’s not necessary for everyone. If you already have an oily scalp, adding more oil can make your hair feel heavier and greasier instead of healthier. Hair care should always depend on your scalp type and what actually works for you, rather than following trending routines online.
However, if you have a dry scalp or deal with flakiness and dandruff, pre-wash oiling can be helpful. In that case, applying oil before shampooing may help soften dryness and support a healthier scalp when used correctly. If you do oil your hair, keep it tied up for at least two hours before washing it out.
Dry brushing
Dry brushing is a simple skincare practice that involves using a firm, dry brush on dry skin before showering. It is often included in body care routines to gently exfoliate the skin by removing dead skin cells, leaving the skin feeling smoother and softer.
Many people include dry brushing in their self-care routine because it can make the skin look more refreshed and may temporarily support circulation when done consistently. It is usually done using light, upward strokes toward the heart, followed by a shower and moisturizing.
However, dry brushing is not essential for healthy skin and is not suitable for everyone. People with sensitive skin, eczema, or irritation should be cautious or avoid it altogether.
Shower routine
Start by washing your hair. If you have keratin-treated or chemically treated hair, use shampoo and conditioner designed specifically for it. For example, OGX is a popular option for many people, while salon-grade alternatives like WONE are also used for more intensive care.
I strongly stand by OGX. My hair used to fall out heavily every time I washed or brushed it, which I didn’t like despite having thick hair. After switching to OGX, my hair fall reduced significantly.
If you have makeup on, double cleanse your face using an oil-based cleanser such as the e.l.f. Cleansing Balm, followed by a foaming cleanser like the Shiseido Foam Cleanser.
A lot of people praise the e.l.f. cleansing balm, and while I think it works fine, I haven’t tried many alternatives to compare it properly. However, the Shiseido Foam Cleanser is something I absolutely love and repurchased. It feels lightweight, helps my skin look brighter and more glowy, and works well for sensitive skin while also helping reduce breakouts.
HAIR SHOWER ROUTINE
Wash your hair twice to thoroughly cleanse the scalp, then follow up with a hair mask. I personally use the Fino hair mask to restore softness and hydration. I think it’s worth the money and the hype. My hair has never felt so soft and manageable.
Next is body care. Some people prefer using bar soap first, but a good body wash is enough for daily cleansing. I use an exfoliating body scrub from OGX along with exfoliating gloves to remove dirt and dead skin. After exfoliating, finish with a body wash of your choice for a clean and refreshed feeling.
Brush your teeth either in or outside the shower. An electric toothbrush is recommended for a deeper and more effective clean.
Apply shaving cream to protect the skin and create a smoother shaving experience. Take your time and make sure to cover all areas properly, including curves and corners, for an even finish.
After shower care
After drying off, moisturize your body properly. I usually start with a lotion that complements my body wash scent or a fragrance-free option, then follow with body oil to lock in moisture.
For facial skincare, maintain a consistent nighttime routine. This may include toner, night cream, retinol (optional), and a sleeping mask.
For reference, I have oily skin.
Some products I personally use include:
Personally, I don’t dry brush, oil my scalp, or shave with shaving cream—but I may try incorporating dry brushing in the future.
Then that’s it—get ready for bed and enjoy your beauty sleep.
See you soon,
Haiena
